Monthly Archives: November 2011

Can You Handle The Pain?

Short term pain must come before the long term success arrives. The 1% have learned this is a fact, and will do whatever it takes to battle through these moments. Rather than feeling sorry for themselves, they work even harder. Instead of quitting, they make a conscious decision to do more. This short term pain is what separates the good from the elite.
Tiger Woods’ career has been all about sacrificing the short term, in order to achieve more in the future. He’s never been afraid of struggling through today’s pain, because he’s mastered this process. Everyone from media to the public has labeled him finished during these difficult two years. He’s about to prove everyone wrong!
      Michael Jordan is the best of all time, mainly because he’d never settle for mediocrity. He went from the sophomore who was cut from his high school team, to the all time greatest. He used this short term “failure” as fuel to become the best. If his NBA teammates didn’t subscribe to this mindset, they were going to hear about it … and FEEL it. He was known to fight players in practice if they gave less than 100% effort.
In the beginning of Roger Federer’s career, he was mentally weak, succumbing to the pressure. He fought through the short term struggles, and learned to dominate. I’d say he won the mental battle.

Time For Thanks…

I am thankful.

I am humbled.

This is the first Thanksgiving weekend without my grandma. She will be missed, but thought of every second. Thank you, grandma.

Thank you, God, universe, karma, and every other force that isn’t fully understood. I’m grateful for the gifts you have given me, but especially for the doors you have closed.

Thank you to my gorgeous wife and angelic daughter. You both are the inspiration and motivation behind everything I do.

I am thankful.

I am humbled.

Lose Your Excuses

I talked to a student tonight, who I’m lucky enough to call my friend. He’s going through some very difficult times — tougher than I’ve ever seen up close. Not one time, has he ever used his situation as an excuse. He only talks about why he’ll succeed, when it will happen, and how he’s going to make it happen. He admits losing sleep, but always uses that loss as fuel for his eventual achievements. He’s as tough as they come, and fights with every last punch. I’ll definitely be sharing his entire success story with you in the future. 
“You’ll only succeed when you want it as bad as you want to breathe…”

-Eric Thomas (the hip hop preacher) 
Lose your excuses

Never Say Never

You don’t need to be an athlete to know who Tiger Woods is, and the “situation” he created for himself in the last couple of years. When the bottom dropped out from underneath him, everyone (including myself) instantly became judge and jury. I was as quick as the next person to throw him under the bus, judging his personal life and decisions he made. It took some time, but I eventually jumped down off of my soapbox, viewing him as the golfer I grew to love and regularly used as a positive example. His personal life is just that – personal! I won’t teach my daughter to emulate his off-course lifestyle, but I will absolutely help her understand the importance of his work ethic.

During this down-time for Tiger, I continued to Tweet, blog, and preach his eventual comeback to anyone who would listen. I contended that he became the best we’d ever seen, primarily due to his unmatched self belief and relentless practice habits. As long as his passion existed, these strengths would also still live inside him. My positive Tiger opinions were definitely in the minority, leaving me open to the naysayers’ hammer-drop … and it was being dropped regularly.

“He’s finished. He’ll never win again. He looks like he’s never played before. You’re crazy to think he’ll ever make it back…”

They were correct. He did look awful! And if this was a normal human being with average mental toughness and an unwillingness to sacrifice, I would’ve agreed with the majority. This was Tiger freaking Woods, however. He changed his swing three times while he was dominating the world of golf, because he always believed it could improve. Obviously, it’s valid to aruge that he shouldn’t have changed anything if wasn’t broken, but Tiger doesn’t think like 99% of the population. He believes that it’s never good enough, and won’t ever settle for less. As we’ve seen, he’ll go through these holding patterns until he finds a better way, but as he’s proven time after time, he always finds that better way. The last couple weeks in Austrailia have shown us that he’s on his way back, and will undoubtedly be a force to reckon with again.

Ignore his personal life decisions, but put a microscope up to his work ethic and ability to continuously find a way to believe in himself. A year ago, while playing the worst golf of his life, he was asked who he thought was the best player in the world. He stared at the interviewer, paused, took a deep breathe, cocked his head to the right, and didn’t say a word, as his body language said it all. His non-answer said, “Me!”

When you look at your reflection, do you see belief or reasons why it can’t happen?

It's Up To You…

Doubt. Fear. Pain. Hesitation. Negativity. Can’t. Won’t. Why should I. Too tired. Too tough. Too much work. Failure
Love it. Opportunity. Fearlessness. Decide. I will. No one can stop me. Practice. What sleep. Destination. Goal. Success. Definite Action. Now … right now
You choose
1% Mindset!