Monthly Archives: November 2012

Raise Your Expectations

I wanted to share four outcome goals an athlete of mine wrote down, regarding an upcoming soccer tournament she has:
1. No goals scored on us. If it happens, I’ll take full responsibility.

2. I’ll have huge impact on the field. My opponents will envy or hate me – no other option.

3. Make someone cry.

4. Sign a Division 1 scholarship on the spot from one of the many college coaches watching.
To most, these goals sound aggressive, cocky, maybe even arrogant. Why does she want an opponent to cry or hate her? Why will she feel responsible in a team sport? This athlete is willing to put the entire team on her back, and do whatever it takes to separate from the pack. She’s completely uninterested in being liked on the field … only respected and feared. She’s a beast during competition, and is why at 16 years old, already has D1 offers on the table. 
To achieve what they won’t, you must do what they can’t. Raise the bar for yourself!

Confidence Isn't Good Enough

Chip Kelly, Oregon’s football coach is revolutionizing the way the college game is played and especially thought about. 
He doesn’t settle for confidence … he expects dominance!
Coach Kelly’s expectations are set for the total destruction of their opponents’ will. The old school way of thinking is “slow and steady” will win the game – Chip’s mindset is about ripping your heart out NOW! He wants to score on you every single play, and fast. 
I highly suggest you adopt this mentality. Make sure your goals are being attacked with a fever pitch. Opportunity won’t hang around forever, so while you have a chance, strike now. 
Lose your focus on confidence … switch it to dominance!