From the book I’m currently reading, “Fail Up,” by Tavis Smiley.
One of my biggest challenges, growing up, was doing something before I could clearly see a mental picture, or knew I would succeed. What I’ve learned (and am still learning), is the unknown is often they key that opens the door to our next successful venture.
My mentor challenged me: “Put up or shut up! If you’re really as good as you say … PROVE IT! Put it all on the line.”
So, I did …
If your mindset isn’t changed within the first week of our coaching, I’ll refund your money 100%!
Why are you doing what you’re doing? It’s easy to get lost in your day-to-day grind, and neglect that question. The “hard work” you’re putting in is irrelevant if you don’t live in this answer 25/8, 366 – every day, all day, immersed in it … or, at the very least, trying to figure it out!
Your driving force automatically creates confidence, motivation, and passion towards your every day work, and will never allow you to stop. When you’re emotionally connected to your Why, there isn’t an obstacle strong enough to make you quit. The mistake most people make is getting immersed in the work to achieve the dream, ignoring (or not knowing) their reason behind it all.
When I’m tired, not feeling 100%, or frustrated … all I have to do is focus on my two emotional driving forces, and I instantly become mentally super-human again. Below are mine. What’s yours?
The majority wake up every morning trying to avoid failure at all cost, believing if they don’t fail, they instantly become successful. THE OPPOSITE IS TRUE! The most highly successful people in history have learned it’s because of their failure, they reached epic levels. I challenge you to not only embrace failure, but invite it!
(Below is from “Fail Up,” written by Tavis Smiley).
She felt MORE energetic after waking up earlier. It becomes addicting getting out of bed before the sun rises, knowing you’re working harder and putting in more hours than, not only your competition, but your old self!
I challenge you to step outside of your comfort zones and challenge your fears. Stop settling for the same average routine, hoping something will change. MAKE IT CHANGE!
Erica’s reppin the 1% Lifestyle! She’s an example of what happens when you stop talking about it, and start living it – waking up every morning, dedicated to separating herself from any and all things average!
If you’re always ready, you won’t have to GET ready!
You’ll ultimately be defined by your ability to withstand obstacles! Raise your bar higher than the 99% can fathom!
Luc sent me this at 5:50 am! He’s committed to never again be out worked. 99% of 16 year olds, especially in the summer, are sleeping in, but he knows: They sleep, he wins!
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The key to your future isn’t how much success you have, but rather, the types of failures you encounter.
Are you failing worse or better? Are you failing backwards or forwards? Mistakes play a huge role in your ultimate success, but what types of mistakes have you been making? Are you repeating the same ones over and over, or are you continuously experimenting and risking?
Fail better!
This is a text a student sent me, frustrated with the beginning of his professional athletic career. He’s realizing the struggle and pain needed to endure isn’t a dream – it’s real, and is what separates the ones who make it from the ones who talk about what if …
Whatever your situation, know that your struggle is temporary, but it will test your commitment and dedication to the process!
