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Fear – Run Or Fight?

We all have fear – we’re human, not robots. It can drive you to excellence, but you must first stand up to it and be ready to fight. I grew up afraid of failure and anything that was uncomfortable or unfamiliar, but made a conscious decision as an adult to fight back.

When will you get sick of allowing fear to dominate your decisions? Choose NOW … no more!

 

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A Wise Tattoo …

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I was buying coffee from this woman, when I noticed something on her arm. When I asked to see her tattoo, she showed me these!

“Before courage, there’s fear!”

The majority want to be fearless, but don’t want to battle through the fear to get there. What I’ve learned living years in the shadow of fear … courage becomes much sweeter on the other side.

You’re human, you’ll feel fear, but know it’s a CHOICE. Choose courage, instead!

Crush Your Fears

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The emotion you feel from fear is real, but the paralysis is an illusion!

I know it FEELS real – I struggled with it for years. I never understood I had all the power. The second I decided to stop being afraid and attack the illusion, the fear melted away.

It’s not enough to “want” to lose the fear … you must swing ferociously and never stop! You deserve success. It’s there waiting for you to decide!

Fear Used To Be His Mental Roadblock

Jack Perry

Huge Congratulations to Jack Perry, #1 golfer at Northwestern – winning the Big Ten’s lowest season stroke average. He’s the first Wildcat to win this honor since PGA star, Luke Donald.

We’ve worked together since he was in high school, but he had never totally immersed himself into the process of eliminating his fear. Last month, he called me, almost in desperation to step his game up to another level. He was looking for an “easy button,” one technique to increase confidence, but instead, we talked about never being out worked and sacrificing all comfort levels – more than the majority can fathom. I wanted him to buy-in to long term confidence, rather than a quick fix. Up until that point, he was doing the minimum – working hard, but not raising his mental bar to a level that would separate him from the pack.

After our conversation, he dedicated himself to doing what 99% weren’t doing – he stopped “hoping” to be the best at Northwestern, and DECIDED to do whatever it took. He began getting out of bed earlier, getting to practice before everyone, but most importantly, stopped settling for being “really good.” Ridiculous success was finally his target. For the first time since we began together, Jack chose to sacrifice his fear and immerse himself in confidence.

The following week, he crushed the field, breaking Luke Donald’s scoring record! If he continues to sacrifice, you’ll be reading his name on the PGA leader board.

Eliminate Your Fear, Achieve Anything

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Imagine, just for a moment, your life without fear of failure … how different would it be? Most believe this isn’t possible, yet the 1% who are Driven By Impossible know it’s a reality.

Eliminating fear takes work – daily effort and a willingness to suffer through pain, but it WILL diminish.

When you make it a priority and emotionally connect to your reason Why, your fear of failure will slowly disappear.